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  Have you ever taken a moment to ask yourself what you want more of in your life?

For decades I lived by default.  I accepted everything I received at face value and felt I had no control over what came into my life. And without question, I’d jump into the expected action.

Of course, lots of good things happened for me, but when all was said and done, they were not all the things that were good for me. I accepted jobs and worked hard when I didn’t like the people I worked for and it made me miserable. I accepted invitations from people that didn’t treat people well because they were “nice” to me… until they weren’t.

Does Any of this sound familiar?

What I realize now is the problem with living this way is that we give up the ability to create a life that honors the reason we are here, our true purpose.

The key to living in a way that honors your desires is not in spending, wasting, or killing time, but investing it.

As you know, I’m all about investing my time and it’s because now that I have seen how people, including myself, can change how they engage and feel each day just by getting clear about what they want.

  1 2 3 Claim Your Clarity | How to Find Out What You Want   

In the video, I share the process I use to help my clients get clear about what they want so they can invest their energy and time in achieving the personal radical success they desire.

Now that I know what living with purpose feels like, I would like to help people who continue living this way so they can live more mindfully. This is important because the way that you engage in life and the enthusiasm you feel each day is directly correlated to how you invest your moments and thoughts. If we don’t seek more clarity and find a purpose for our days, we could end up living a life where we did everything, we were told to do but never achieve the riches we hoped for.

After you watch the video, I’d love to know how you discover what you really want.  Finding clarity in life and the reason beyond the goals that you set for yourself give you the ability to be more intentional with your time and how you live.

I am here to be of service and would love to help you close the gap between where you are and where you want to be and we can do that right here – every other week, and via my blog and you also have access to my book, Be a Spiritual Girl in a Material World | Achieve Radical Personal Success Without Sacrificing Your Health, Wealth, and Happiness. It’s a book I wrote to help high achieving women live a more balanced and fulfilling life. So, please reach out.  Know you’re not on your own.

I’d love for you to share any ah-has, comments, questions, and thoughts with me about what I share here and in my book by emailing me at Carmen[at]WellbeingMessenger[dot]com.   I am here for you and I personally respond to all of my emails and comments.

Also, if you enjoyed this vlog, please share it with a friend you think will enjoy it.  There are share links at the bottom of this post. Your share goes far and means the world to me and our mission.  Until next time, live with passion, purpose, and play.

With gratitude,
Carmen M. Perez
The Wellbeing Messenger
Growth ~ Marketing ~ Performance
Author, Motivational Speaker, Mentor, Mother, Wife, and Lover of Life

P.S. Would you like to get what you want and achieve the success you desire without sacrificing your health, wealth, and happiness?  Enter your name and email address to receive the  Guide to Create a Life Worth Living: 11 Steps to Creating Priorities for Fulfillment and Meaning so you can stop living by default and start living by design.

Is your self-talk loving... or something else?

Be a Spiritual Girl in a Material World Book Cover MediumI have to admit, there are times if a friend talk to me the way I talk to myself, we would not be friends. 

The good news is it doesn’t have to be this way.  There is a simple way to retrain your brain so you are your own biggest champion. 

If you’d like to learn more about how to retrain your brain so you’re always kind to yourself and your greatest fan, checkout my book , Be a Spiritual Girl in a Material World: Achieve Radical Personal Success Without Sacrificing Your Health, Wealth, and Happiness.  

In it I offer a new way to think about what is possible and how to get away from self-sabotaging thoughts that disempower you. 

“Carmen’s guidance, advice, and wisdom helped me feel worthy, peaceful and very grateful. This book will stay on my shelf in the reference section as I know I’ll refer back to it many times.”

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